When it comes to the classroom, student behaviors are reinforced as they are recognized through positive teacher-to-student interactions. Generally, teachers allow appropriate behavior to go unrecognized and are more likely to recognize inappropriate student behavior; however, attempting to strengthen desirable behavior through positive reinforcement, rather than trying to weaken undesirable behavior using averse or negative processes, contributes to a classroom conducive to learning (Emmer, Evertson, & Worsham, 2003). Simple gestures such as a handshake, verbal acknowledgement, or a smile, are among the very best ways to interact in a positive manner with students. For ideas of positive things to say to students, I checked out 101 Ways to Say “Good Job.” For me, this was a good start to become more positive in a challenging school environment, but really the basic concept here is fostering relationships.
Relationships are
central to learning, student growth and a healthy school climate for students
and adults. Marzano, Pickering, and Pollock (2001) concluded that positive teacher-student relationships form the largest
portion of a positive discipline plan, as strong relationships with students,
in return help to decrease the number of student discipline incidents. When
students feel that you value and care for them as individuals, they are more
willing to comply with your wishes. Similarly, it is also ideal to reach out to
parents to develop strong viable partnerships that promote open lines of
communication. Such relationships help to dramatically increase your positive
power over students because the students know that you and their parents are
working together rather than being at odds with each other. Above all, it is
imperative that students develop trusting and enriching relationships with each
other. Not only does this contribute to a positive classroom environment, but
it also improves the quality of school life for everyone.